Emotional conflict is the presence of different and opposing

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relating to a situation that has recently taken place or is in the process of being unfolded. They may be accompanied at times by a physical

discomfort Comfort (or being comfortable'')'' is a sense of physical or psychological ease, often characterized as a lack of hardship. Persons who are lacking in comfort are uncomfortable, or experiencing discomfort. A degree of psychological comfort c ...

, especially when a functional disturbance has become associated with an emotional conflict in childhood, and in particular by

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"expressing a state of inner tension... rcaused by an unconscious conflict". For C. G. Jung, "emotional conflicts and the intervention of the

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are the classical features of...medical

psychology Psychology is the scientific study of mind and behavior. Psychology includes the study of conscious and unconscious phenomena, including feelings and thoughts. It is an academic discipline of immense scope, crossing the boundaries betwe ...

". Equally, "

Freud Sigmund Freud ( , ; born Sigismund Schlomo Freud; 6 May 1856 – 23 September 1939) was an Austrian neurologist and the founder of psychoanalysis, a clinical method for evaluating and treating pathologies explained as originating in conflicts in ...

's concept of emotional conflict as amplified by

Anna Freud Anna Freud (3 December 1895 – 9 October 1982) was a British psychoanalyst of Austrian-Jewish descent. She was born in Vienna, the sixth and youngest child of Sigmund Freud and Martha Bernays. She followed the path of her father and contribu ...

... Erikson and others is central in contemporary theories of mental disorder in children, particularly with respect to the development of

psychoneurosis Neurosis is a class of functional mental disorders involving chronic distress, but neither delusions nor hallucinations. The term is no longer used by the professional psychiatric community in the United States, having been eliminated from th ...

In childhood development

"The early stages of emotional development are full of potential conflict and disruption". Infancy and childhood are a time when "everything is polarised into extremes of love and hate" and when "totally opposite, extreme ''feelings'' about them must be getting put together too. Which must be pretty confusing and painful. It's very difficult to discover you hate someone you love". Development involves integrating such primitive emotional conflicts, so that "in the process of integration, impulses to attack and destroy, and impulses to give and share are related, the one lessening the effect of the other", until the point is reached at which "the child may have made a satisfactory fusion of the idea of destroying the object with the fact of loving the same object". Once such primitive relations to the mother or motherer have been at least partially resolved, "in the age period two to five or seven, each normal infant is experiencing the most intense conflicts" relating to wider relationships: "ideas of love are followed by ideas of hate, by jealousy and painful emotional conflict and by personal suffering; and where conflict is too great there follows loss of full capacity, inhibitions...symptom formation".

Defences

Defenses against emotional conflict include "

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and

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. They deal with intrapsychic conflict not by addressing it, but by sidestepping it".

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too can help resolve such conflicts: "If an individual no longer feels threatened by his father but by a horse, he can avoid hating his father; here the distortion way a way out of the conflict of

ambivalence Ambivalence is a state of having simultaneous conflicting reactions, beliefs, or feelings towards some object. Stated another way, ambivalence is the experience of having an attitude towards someone or something that contains both positively and neg ...

. The father, who had been hated and loved simultaneously, is loved only, and the hatred is displaced onto the bad horse".

Physical symptoms

Inner emotional conflicts can result in physical discomfort or

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, often in the form of

, which can be episodic or chronic, and may last from a few minutes or hours, to days - associated pain being mild, moderate, or severe. "The physiology of nervous headaches still presents many unsolved problems", as in general do all such "physical alterations...rooted in unconscious instinctual conflicts". However physical discomfort or pain without apparent cause may be the way our

body Body may refer to: In science * Physical body, an object in physics that represents a large amount, has mass or takes up space * Body (biology), the physical material of an organism * Body plan, the physical features shared by a group of anima ...

is telling us of an underlying

emotional Emotions are mental states brought on by neurophysiological changes, variously associated with thoughts, feelings, behavioral responses, and a degree of pleasure or displeasure. There is currently no scientific consensus on a definition. E ...

turmoil and

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ed by some recent event. Thus for example a woman "may be busy in her office, apparently in good health and spirits. A moment later she develops a blinding headache and shows other signs of distress. Without consciously noticing it, she has heard the foghorn of a distant ship, and this has unconsciously reminded her of an unhappy parting". While it is not easy, by relaxing, calming down, and trying to become aware of what recent experience or event could have been the cause of the inner conflict, and then rationally looking at and dealing with the conflicting desires and

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s, a gradual dissipation and

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of the pain may be possible.

In the workplace

With respect to the

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age, " LaBier writes of 'modern madness', the hidden link between work and emotional conflict...feelings of self-betrayal, stress and burnout". His "idea, which gains momentum in the post-

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late eighties...concludes that real professional success without regret of emotional conflict requires insanity of one kind or another".

Cultural examples

* Advice on fiction writing emphasises the "necessity of creating powerful, emotional conflicts" in one's characters: "characters create the emotional conflict and the action emerges from the characters". * Shakespeare's sonnets have been described as "implying an awareness of the possible range of human feelings, of the existence of complex and even contradictory attitudes to a single emotion" * For

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"the presence of death is always coincident with the taste for life...the superb violence of these emotional transports have led some people to call his work

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".Gaston Diehl, ''Picasso'' (Milan nd) p. 76 and p. 81

In childhood development

Defences

Physical symptoms

In the workplace

Cultural examples

See also

References

Further reading